Category Archives: Attachment – Vairagya

Footloose and fancy free!

It’s been 12 days since my house closed and I left for California with a couple of suitcases and a bunch of holiday stuff tossed into the back of my minivan. The family that bought the house emailed that they’re … Continue reading

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On schlepping stuff.

So… all that stuff I threw into the back of my Toyota minivan just before I left town Friday? 2 carry-on size suitcases 3 boxes of important stuff I couldn’t live without for two months 3 boxes of essential stuff … Continue reading

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Costs of selling a home mount up

Yesterday I did the deed. Or more accurately, I paid Chicago Title a queen’s ransom to do the deed. For them to guarantee that there were no liens against my property I paid more than $1,500.  I also paid the … Continue reading

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Friends: indispensable during a move

Even my cat, Bama, wants to help. Over the past week I’ve also had major packing and cleaning help from Chris, Patty, Skip and Sue. Down and dirty help, especially from Chris. She and I have cooked a half dozen charity … Continue reading

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Downsizing my closet, with help.

My well-dressed and ruthlessly honest friend Judi came over this morning to help me tackle that which I’ve been unable to tackle alone… my closet. I thought I’d done so well this summer when I filled two large bags for … Continue reading

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How am I doing?

People who know how much I love this house ask me how I’m holding up under the impending sale and move (of my stuff) into a storage unit. Surprisingly, astonishingly even, FINE. I’ve been too busy to get emotional – … Continue reading

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What’s your stuff worth? (Hint: not much…)

I delivered a couple of antiques, some lovely old china and several nice paintings to a local auction house today. The guy had come out a few days ago to eyeball my holdings and estimate what they might bring at … Continue reading

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Feng Shui works! What I’ve learned getting my home ready to sell…

It may be a down market, but many people have come through my house in the first few days.  Two couples are already preparing offers. The house, like a standard poodle at Westminster,  shows well. A lot of it has … Continue reading

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Sudden misgivings: am I selling too soon?

It’s not like this oak dresser is anything special, even though it’s old and I’ve had it a long time. Nor is the other old oak bureau, or the plain pine one.  And I’m not enamored of any of them. … Continue reading

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What about the family piano??

The piano is a dying fixture in the American home.  So claims a recent story in the Los Angeles Times. 105,000 acoustic pianos (upright and grand) were sold in the US in 2000. By 2007 sales had plunged to 54,000.  … Continue reading

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